Politicians say they'll fight for people like us. Why not just elect one of us? Someone who knows the value of hard work, what it's like to struggle, who has spent his career fighting on behalf of children with cancer, grieving children and those needing support to reach their amazing potential?
Like you, I have dealt with my fair share of losses, and I have struggled mightily through them, at times directly with the meaning of my own existence.
My experience with loss began at 26, when my best friend John unexpectedly died of a rare heart disease. It continued in my late 30s when my wife, only grandparent, father, mother, dear friend and 9-year old niece Susan died. Being with my brother and sister-in-law when Susan died was the most difficult experience of my life.
For most politicians, issues are used to move people to vote or give money. To me, it's personal. My wife got her first cancer due to contaminated water in Massachusetts. The lack of regulations at the time meant she and many others were part of a cancer cluster, written off as expendable.
A health care system so messed up that my wife's second cancer went undiagnosed for years, costing her precious time for treatment that could have extended her life.
I'll fight like hell to make sure our story isn't repeated.
I've had my worst day - I have nothing left to lose, and live my life with immense gratitude. I don't know how to give up.
I have lost jobs, seen zeroes in my bank account too many times and even sold silverware I inherited from my mother to make ends meet. Times have been tough.
But I'm a lucky guy - in fact I'm the richest person you will ever meet, because I have two amazing daughters (they're a lot like their Mom), a great supportive family and friends... and two dogs who are like my children.
I live to help others, and prefer to do so without fanfare - I'm kind of a throwback who believes in humility and hates self promotion - it's kind of gross and the thing I like least about running for office.
I have been blessed to be the beneficiary of random acts of kindness, and I live to pay it forward. I don't want to be known for what I've lost, but how I live and love.
I pride myself of being kind and considerate, but don't mistake that for being soft - I'm the most relentlessly determined person you will ever meet, ignited on the day of Elyse's third birthday party, when I had to tell the girls their mother died.
I've turned more laundry pink than any man should, made enough chicken nuggets to start my own franchise, sent my girls to school looking like linebackers far too often, all while working in nonprofits to support the most vulnerable among us: the working poor, children, the sick, hungry and vulnerable.
I believe in the power and promise of every single person. I don't have much faith in the institutions that seek to leverage money and power to control us.
We don't need more political voices in Washington, we need more authentic ones - we need someone who knows what it's like to fight to make ends meet rather than just talk about it and who doesn't conform comfortably to any label, except Dad. I'm a proud Progressive in the tradition of Teddy Roosevelt, Paul Wellstone and Bobby Kennedy, but I also believe that small business drives our economy, that taxes are too high and too complex and that what government does it should do well, but it's not the answer to everything.
I've got nothing left to lose, I fear nothing, and I ain't giving up...
Check out my LinkedIn bio to learn more about my professional background as a nonprofit innovator on behalf of the most vulnerable among us. I'm a change-agent who loves figuring things out, setting a clear strategy and plan, hiring really good people, supporting them, and getting out of the way :)
I've been writing and painting for years. To make the Opposition Research easier, you can find all my work online. It's pretty absurd, but you know what: so is losing the love of your life at age 38.
I swear (a lot), hate wearing ties (a lot), abhor pretense in any form, love music (Bruce Hornsby, Radiohead, Robert Glaspar), art (Philp Guston), sketch comedy and improv, I swim every morning, walk my dogs, eat healthy and hardly ever drink.
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